Tinder Icebreakers for Real Guys
Let’s be real: the usual funny Tinder icebreakers don’t actually work. They’re “icebreakers” for guys who are just trying to get laughs on Reddit, and even then they only worked 1 out of 100 times.
Tinder icebreakers like that are hilarious to read, but in practice, most women find them annoying. So forget everything about impressing girls with fratty Tinder icebreakers. Jokes and weird questions aren’t the only way to break the ice on Tinder (and certainly not the best).
The following Tinder icebreakers will actually get replies and dates with quality women.
Tinder Icebreakers You Can Steal (Copy-Paste)
What’s the best and worst thing about where you work?
What is something you are obsessed with?
What is something popular now that annoys you?
What were you really into when you were a kid?
Would you rather watch a documentary or a horror movie?
Books or podcasts?
What’s your favorite 90s song?
Halloween or Christmas?
If you could trade places with anyone currently alive, would you? / Who would it be?
Do you believe in ghosts?
Which is a better Friday night: dancing or Netflix?
What’s the weirdest message you’ve ever gotten on here from someone?
Dogs or cats? There is only one right answer.
QUICK. All-time favorite movie?
F, marry, kill: Barack Obama, Donald Trump, Oprah?
What emojis do you use the most?
What’s something no one would guess about you from a first impression?
When you come across someone you know on here, do you swipe left or right?
How to Transition to a Date
Once you’ve gotten some back-and-forth going using your icebreaker, use this line to make a date.
You can use it at virtually any time on Tinder. If she just asked you a question, answer it, then immediately follow up with this.
You: Hey would you be down to grab coffee sometime?
Her: Yeah sure. 🙂
You: Are you free at all next week — maybe Monday?
Her: Yeah I could do after work Monday
You: Cool. How about Ron’s Coffee in Littleton? Is 5 too early/late?
Her: 5 works for me!
You: Cool. It’s on my calendar.
Her: Me too. Looking forward to it!
[End of conversation]
… For Best Results, Optimize Your Tinder Pics BEFORE You Send That Icebreaker Message
Your profile pic makes a huge difference in how girls “hear” your message on Tinder.
In fact, you could say the same icebreaker question to the same woman — just with a different main profile pic — and get a completely different reaction.
To know for sure you’re using the right Tinder pics, test yours on Photofeeler. Choosing your pics this way has been known to increase Tinder matches by 3-5x (200-400%).