Ah Facebook, the book of faces, the place where you get reminded to wish everyone you’ve ever shared air with a “Happy Birthday, let’s hang out soon” post.
But, just like you don’t actually plan to hang out, do daters actually plan to meet you for your scheduled Facebook Date in real life?
Beyond the obvious trials and tribulations of dating, how good is Facebook Dating actually? Is it safe? Do we recommend you give it a shot? Everything you should know before you sign your heart away is below, so read on, oh single, sultry one.
Is Facebook Dating Safe?
To put it bluntly, it’s not safe at all.
Privacy is 50/50.
Facebook’s battled its fair share of privacy leaks and concerns in the past; its dating feature is no different.
Users are able to browse matches by group and events in common or add one of their existing Facebook friends as a “secret crush.”
Also, if you match someone who has mutual friends with you, it will show who it is, so there’s no reason for them not to find said friend, type your name into their friend’s list, and discover your personal Facebook profile. 70% creepy + 30% cringe = 100% no.
Scammers are abundant.
“Hey, I’m not on here much. Do you mind if we chat on-…”
Yes. Yes, you mind. You mind a lot, actually.
Why?
Because there’s really no reason to move off of the Facebook app to chat unless you plan on swapping numbers. Even so, meet in person, in a public place, before you hand out any personal details. You never know when someone could be catfishing you. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
These third-party applications are fine and good, but it’s sketchy. We don’t like it.
And, in case nobody’s ever told you before, never send anyone that you haven’t met in person money. This is especially true for:
- Nigerian princes
- Anyone who just won the lottery (Because why would they need money to send you money?)
- Suspiciously attractive singles that have one profile photo (If you see this Diane, you owe me $500)
Facebook Dating FAQs
Jumping headfirst onto any dating app is a weird culture shock, so don’t freak out if you’re shaking in your boots. Check out some frequently asked questions and then decide if Facebook Dating is right (or wrong) for you.
“What is the average age range of Facebook Dating users?”
Searching singles report that middle-aged people account for a majority of the Facebook Dating userbase. You can expect to find more matches in the 40-50 years old range than in the 20s-30s; however, it really depends on what country you’re searching for love in.
While Facebook does not provide specific statistics, it is estimated that the average age range of daters on the platform falls between 30 and 55 years old. This age group comprises a mix of singles, divorcees, individuals seeking meaningful connections, and *drumroll* scammers.
“What are most people looking for on Facebook Dating?”
Due to the already slightly-sketchy nature of Facebook and the ability to easily create fake accounts, Facebook Dating has slowly turned into a swamp… A swamp full of trolls lurking in the shadows, ready to tax anyone who dare try to walk over the bridge into their hearts.
It’s become known as a scam dating app used for lowkey hookups.
Anyone who’s looking for a serious relationship, and to keep all their savings under their name, has best look elsewhere for quality matches.
“How do I sign up for Facebook Dating?”
If you’ve decided to give Facebook Dating an old-fashioned try, signing up for the service is completely free and easy.
On a smartphone: Facebook app > Menu (three blue lines in the lower right corner with a small circle with your profile photo) > Facebook Dating
On a desktop: Facebook > Menu > Facebook Dating
After you find the icon, click to get started. It is mandatory to provide your first name, age, and in what location you’re dating. The following personal details are optional:
- Gender
- Hometown
- Job Title
- Company
- High School
- College
*We do not recommend putting your company name, especially if you work locally. It’s best to avoid telling strangers too much.
“Are there any success stories from Facebook Dating?”
Of course! Although it’s not confirmed how many singles have coupled up with the love of their life via FB dating, the service has made its fair share of long-term connections. And, even if it hasn’t worked out romantically, numerous individuals reported forming solid friendships with people they may have never met otherwise.
Facebook Dating Alternatives
For those skeptical about Facebook Dating or seeking a wider range of options, several alternatives exist in the online dating landscape. Here are a few notable platforms:
Attracting Quality Matches
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